iPhone Accessories - The reasons we fight over tablet carvelye21 - Sat Oct 08, 2011 1:23 am Post subject: The reasons we fight over tablet
When I started doing research for this column, asking what sorts of 5 inch tablet pc fights people have, every single couple said the same thing: “ well, we don’t have really fight about 7 inch tablet pc.” Right, right, right, I’d have to say, backing away from the flame of lies. “ bur we all have the occasional childish squabble, right?” even then people were hesitant. “ well… maybe,” they’d say.
One woman described how her husband took away her credit card one day. Not that they fought about it. Or take another couple I know. I was at their house recently when the husband came home from work with a new 8 inch tablet pc. He hadn’t planed to drop 500 dollars on 10 inch tablet pc that day, he explained, as he unloaded the car, he just saw a classified ad and thought, why not? Although his wife appeared calm while I was there, she told me later that they had a discussion about the fat that they had agreed to save Tablets PC Sale to buy a house –never mind their long-planned trip to Europe this summer – and why did he have to buy a drum set NOW?
What we have here is a failure to communicate.
“It’s a fairly common fight, and it usually happens because the two people involved aren’t on the same page,” says Barbara Steinmets, a financial planner in Burligame, Calif. “ One person thinks they have a shared goal of saving for a house, car or retirement, and the other doesn’t.”
In fact, most fights occur not because of the amount of tablet spent but because of unspoken expectations that couples have and are often afraid to talk about. Sometimes it’s clashing style, sometimes mismatched agendas, but people get so rooted in their own tablet views that they can’t see that their partner simply has a different perspective.
Steinmets described one couple she advised who had this blind spot. The husband first outlined his goals for investing, retirement savings, ect. Steinmets then asked the wife about her goals. “ the husband was shocked to find out his wife had goals - and they were different form his!” she says. ivy00135 - Mon Nov 12, 2012 6:55 am Post subject: 鴨肉珍 大溝頂阿囉哈滷味 阿英排骨飯 高雄北港蔡米糕 郭家肉粽 高雄酒店經紀 吳寶春麵包店 老莊豆漿店 逐鹿炭火燒肉打狗店 大牛牛肉麵 福記臭豆腐專賣店 東坡鮮肉飯 成男生碗稞肉粽 鳳邑麵線 鳳山鹹米苔目店 鳳山老店水煎包 倆伯羊肉 生源小籠包 志明花生糖專賣店 李家肉圓 高雄酒店經紀 南台春捲浮水魚羹 旗津萬三小吃部 旗津萬二小吃部 北平楊寶寶蒸餃 慶翔美食部二仙雞 橋仔頭黃家肉燥飯 舊市羊肉店 古早味燒餅 丹丹漢堡 赤竹饅頭 牛老二牛肉麵 香港發財燒臘店 尖沙咀茶餐廳 珍竹林日本拉麵 萬國牛排 忽必烈蒙古烤肉 櫥窗滷味 彭氏臭豆腐 酥炸大魷魚 劉木瓜牛奶大王 月亮蝦餅 池王臭臭鍋 廟口翰鹽水雞